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Coming out of the closet

Started by Ameboes, April 29, 2008, 04:27:30 PM

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johnny282

only person i ever told about it was an ex.  she wasn't very sexual to begin with and she really wasn't into fd at all.  she indulged me a couple of times, but i tended to want more and it just wasn't generally for our relationship.

Lady_Blue

I haven't told anyone at all. I'm kinda afraid of what they'd think. Which is weird because I'm usually pretty open about a lot. Meh, maybe eventually I'll tell someone. -_-

2nd2emotion

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My now ex-girlfriend knows about it, i told her in a drunken moment a year or so after we got together. She's was never so in to the desperation though, and I never got her to wet herself.

I do have some other friends who know I have an ongoing fetish (a couple of whom share it ); generally only those I trust; but there's a number more who know I've had golden showers before... i had that question asked by someone in a large group, and being the drunkie that I was, I didn't quite say no XD

Edit: What do people think the best way to tell someone is? I once ended up having a conversation about sex with someone, and we got in to things that turn you on... and I kinda just blurted it out. I don't find it a hard thing to -say- particularly. its just the right moment never really pops up... you can't really slip it in anywhere.  "Oh hey, how's your car going after the other day?" "Oh good. Hey did i mention i'd love you to wet yourself right now?" o.O

AliasnameTO

The best way to say it is IMO how you described in your post... get them into a conversation of fetishes in general, and then it comes off as no big deal. They won't think you're a creep because they told you stuff that's likely equally as weird.

clazidge

hahahaha, yeh right! no-one knows about this side of me. I'd have no friends if people knew!

AliasnameTO

Quote from: clazidge on April 04, 2009, 05:55:55 PM
hahahaha, yeh right! no-one knows about this side of me. I'd have no friends if people knew!

I'm sure it won't be that bad. Absolute worst-case scenario, they'll think you're weird and/or a perv. But that's highly unlikely to happen if you say it under the right circumstances, let alone that they won't haul ass out of your life as fast as they can.

Tru

Quote from: AliasnameTO on April 04, 2009, 09:09:42 PM
I'm sure it won't be that bad. Absolute worst-case scenario, they'll think you're weird and/or a perv. But that's highly unlikely to happen if you say it under the right circumstances, let alone that they won't haul ass out of your life as fast as they can.
Let it be known that telling a girl about your fetish while drunkenly hitting on her at a party is not "the right circumstances." :no:
Err...not that I'd know about that. :sweatdrop:
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jumanji42

Quote from: clazidge on April 04, 2009, 05:55:55 PM
hahahaha, yeh right! no-one knows about this side of me. I'd have no friends if people knew!

it's not that bad. my friends we're generally excepting. i lost a few friends and gained some new ones. the ones i lost turned out to be unfaithful jerks who we're only my friends for what i had (a massive TV and a hand full of game systems). bring up the conversation "what turns u on" and go from there

TiaMaria

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Quote from: AliasnameTO on March 31, 2009, 08:52:19 PM
The best way to say it is IMO how you described in your post... get them into a conversation of fetishes in general, and then it comes off as no big deal. They won't think you're a creep because they told you stuff that's likely equally as weird.

Agreed. My coming out of the closet on the subject of FD to my friends was a bit of a non event because of it. We were talking about what floats our respective boats, I said mine, and was met with a 'Yeah? So? My dad likes that too'.

OmorashiShoujo

I told a girlfriend I had when I was 16....but our relationship started falling apart once we weren't allowed to see each other anymore and so I started dating a guy when I was still 16, and I told him about the fetish only around 2 months of dating, and we've been together 2 years now.  I did tell a friend, but our friendship is fading fast, so I told him I wasn't into it anymore, since he's the type that might get spiteful once he realizes we're really not friends anymore and tell people about it.

chibiyoko707

I had a girlfriend once when i was like 18 or 19 well around that time we had been dating for like 3 months and she wanted to know what turned me on so i asked her what turned her on and she told me that she found the act of washing or cleaning sexy so I thought wow we might be a perfect match i like to wet myself then she could punish me by making me clean it up. So I told her and she freaked out and old her friends -which really pissed me off cause her friends were just real bitches and thought I was an abomination I don't know why- Back to the story well her friends came into my house and trashed it and when I got back to my apartment and saw the mess -which my landlord saw and got really pissed off about and tried to evict me(but he had caught me doing other stuff, I used to be an alcoholic but i'm good now- My girlfriend felt bad about what her friends did came and helped me clean my house But what happened there was she had to go really bad but I was in the Bathroom at the time so she peed all over her self and I don't want to get into to much detail for her sake, we had sex and then she broke up with me again  And that was the first girl i came out to willingly (most of my other girlfriends/boyfriends found out by themselves)   
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Dohhsmurph

I have told a few people, both romantic interest and friends. Nothing bad thank god.  although once I did have one of the girls tell her mom.  :death: Surprisingly the mom was cool with it. But that was just to weird. Other than that they went over smooth.

wetypd

Only some really close friends know about it (and I bet almost half of them has forgotten it by now ;)) plus my last 3 ex-girlfriends (no, the "ex" doesn't come from the confession) and my actual girlfriend (I doubt you are here but if you read this: Feel thanked and loved for what you are and for what you are for me). All of them were either indifferent (the friends) or a mixture of curious, proud of beeing trusted with such a secret and a little flabbergasted - after all, it isn't a really common fetish ;)

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hadmac

I have a number of friends on line who know, but very few (2 not in my family) know the real me in person, and I likely will keep it that way.

redeker

I've only told my brother, just so he could know what kind of pron I wanted when he visited Japan. I think my mother has an idea, but I have some regular porn to throw her off track. But for the most part, I'm still in the closet. I think it's for the best, since teenagers in high school aren't well-known for accepting diversity; I'm quite self-conscious, and I'm afraid to let people in RL know that part of me.
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