...no, not as in homosexuality. This is the FD forum, after all. :lol:
Has anyone ever admitted their interest in watersports, wetting, desperation, etc. to anyone who hadn't really shown an obvious interest in it? Say, to friends or to a romantic interest? Share your stories here. :D
I'd contribute to my own topic, but, well, the only people who know about it are the people who frequent the same NSFW communities I do. Yeah.
All of my friends know I'm into FD. Or most of them at least.
Sure. My wife knows about it, as do most of my friends. My friends are generally fairly perverted anyway, so I wasn't worried about anyone being judgmental. A few of them were a bit confused about my attachment to 'fear wetting', but I've never been particularly uncomfortable discussing it with them.
My wife was even easier. *shrug* I told her about my FD fetish and she volunteered to drink several bottles of water and let me handcuff her to the bathroom sink until she wet her jeans. I filmed the entire episode, but between the lengthy wait (it took her forEVER to finally burst and go) and my shoddy camera work, it doesn't make for a terribly good viewing. She'd gladly do it again for me, but the setup time and amount of effort involved have been fairly prohibitive.
I have one female friend that knows about it, but she doesn't seem to think it's weird or anything. I don't think she is into it though, although strangely, I know she has an interest in me, which isn't going to happen.
No one knows and I doubt I'll soon tell anyone; it's kinda a private thing I guess.
Plus I don't want to know how people would react>_>
is my private fetish, i'm not interested in someone kwons it, plus a met a nice girl on internet who is into this too, and sometimes we talk about pee
I tell people about it when they ask what kind of porn i like. One of them was a yuri fan and really liked lesbian watersports, but i have yet to meet anyone in person who likes FD.
My friends just shrugged and went back to watching yuri, bbw, bdsm, and other stuff.
Quote from: Serika on May 03, 2008, 10:53:03 PMbdsm, and other stuff.
Oddly enough, it seems like bdsm would be more readily accepted than FD, generally speaking. Which I think is weird, since bdsm seems a lot more hardcore and taboo IMO than pee.
My closest friends know. Other than that, not really...
I do tell most people I RP with, though.
Only one of my friends knows. (Well this forum knows too, but outside of here no one knows...)
Quote from: killop on April 29, 2008, 10:17:02 PM
Nah, I'm completely secret about it. I'm not ashamed of it, but people most likely won't understand. You know what I mean?
Actually, most people I told were quite okay with it.
Quote from: Taiki Saruwatari on April 29, 2008, 04:33:20 PM
All of my friends know I'm into FD. Or most of them at least.
congrats dude. i'm telling my friends bit by bit, and only the ones i know i can trust. i do have a few friends and family members who are into it. we trade off. the girls and boys. we pee for eachother.
Quote from: mann on May 25, 2008, 10:46:25 PM
if I had it my way no one would know, but unfortunately i was caught looking at porn , so only my immediate family knows
But is desperation porn?......
Quote from: bordendazed on January 26, 2009, 02:33:12 PM
Quote from: mann on May 25, 2008, 10:46:25 PM
if I had it my way no one would know, but unfortunately i was caught looking at porn , so only my immediate family knows
But is desperation porn?......
Even if you don't exactly classufy it that way, it's still rather awkward to explain when someone walks in ;)
but back on topic:
A few of my friends know and my boyfriend, but i try to keep the number low, to avoid offending someone or making someone feel awkward.
I've told each of my serious relationships. It's pretty tame stuff, really, and so they were each happy to oblige, :)
Aah, that coming out. :blush:
But yeah, I was talking to this girl I really like over the phone late one night and we decided to talk about our fetishes. Not the smartest thing to do in hindsight, but I told her about mine. She was a little disgusted at first, but she got over it. Then she started tempting me (during the conversation) with scenarios, and she admitted that one time while I was driving her home one night from this party that she had to go pretty badly and I had been making jokes that were making her laugh pretty hard she was actually worried she'd wet herself in my car(at the time she hadn't said anything and I wasn't paying particular attention to her, now I wish I had). Needless to say, I had a good time after I heard that and she hung up. XD.
And then my friend (a guy) and I got into that same talk, and I told him. Not what he expected from me, but he didn't seem that much affected by it.
Oh, and P.S. the girl thought I was a pedophile after I told her about it, because little children are more prone to accidents.
I'm not...for the record.
Quote from: impasse32 on January 29, 2009, 02:03:51 PMOh, and P.S. the girl thought I was a pedophile after I told her about it, because little children are more prone to accidents.
Well that's an unfortunate reality. XD But then again, so are old people, so she can't deduce you're a pedophile just because you're into FD.
I had a similar conversation over IM with a girl that I only know online. Hehe, and I thought I was weird with my smattering of interests.
I have told a couple of my friends, and they seemed to be okay with it. One of my friends saw it as more of a practical problem ("It's not really a matter of it being gross, it's just... the cleanup.").
The first person I told was my then-boyfriend when I was about fifteen. He seemed okay with it at first, but it wasn't long before he admitted that it made him nauseous just thinking about me. Of course, I'd been going out with him for years by then, so it was nothing less than heartbreaking. He tried to convince me that I had this fetish because I was sexually repressed (he was the one repressing me, of course), and repeatedly asked if I'd ever been abused (which I have not been). I ended up pinching myself every time I thought of it in order to get rid of the fetish. It didn't work and eventually I broke up with him.
I'm now in a long-distance relationship, with which I am very happy. We'll be a lot closer within this year, hopefully, but for now we cyber and roleplay. I actually told him about the fetish before we decided to date, and he was okay with it then. After we started dating, his attitude was, "You go ahead and enjoy it, I don't mind." Of course, it grew on him, and now we roleplay with it. I'll eventually adapt some of these roleplays to stories, so everyone can enjoy them!
I actually waited quite a while before telling my long time girlfriend and she thought it was pretty hot. She has her own fetishes that I participate in for her and she does for me. Its a fair relationship because we would do anything for each if it turns them on. It also doesn't hurt that she is a nursing student so shes WAY over the gross factor. I don't let anybody else know I am into it so it stays a private thing between me and my girlfriend and we are ok with that.
If anybody is having problems with their partner rejecting their fetish, if they aren't willing to explore and open their mind for you then where will you be down the road when things get stale? Don't try to change your sexual tastes for one person. There is always someone out there looking for someone to match their personality including their sexual fetishes. Your partner should feel flattered and fortunate for you to share your deepest secret desires with them. You lay ultimate trust with them and you make yourself super vulnerable and for them to down you at that point is cruel. I am glad that there are a good number of people who are out there with understanding partners and there are plenty more just waiting to "come out".
I'm surprised so many people have had good experiences telling people about their fetish. I've told a couple of my girlfriends about it, and they were pretty thoroughly disgusted (though to be fair, I told them that I liked being peed on, in addition to the desperation thing). It gets harder to bring up after every rejection. :icon_frown:
Quote from: Tru on February 02, 2009, 06:10:50 PM
I'm surprised so many people have had good experiences telling people about their fetish. I've told a couple of my girlfriends about it, and they were pretty thoroughly disgusted (though to be fair, I told them that I liked being peed on, in addition to the desperation thing). It gets harder to bring up after every rejection. :icon_frown:
dont give up!!! i have been rejected 18 times because of this and i finally found some one who accepts me for who i am. there millions of fish in the sea, and even less people but the world has plenty of land mass to hold people too. keep looking
Yeah I had no idea so many people have been flat turned out because of a simple fondness for the wetness. :crying: It kinda makes me mad because so many other fetishes are so welcomed in our society but others are singled out by people. Its either ignorance or simple unwillingness to have an open mind toward sexuality. I hope a more liberal sexual society will rise in the coming decades so people can be informed and more open.
Somehow the topic come up while playing TF2. So yeah, admitted it to everyone on the server.
Everyone here are fascinated by watersports or FD...
Well, for me it's just something that I don't mind, doesn't really have a fetish for it. I'm more into... errr... feet. :blushing:
Anyways, I'm still young and doesn't have a girlfriend, active imagination makes for alot of fantasies though. XD
I have a gf, but haven't told her. I pretty much like voyeur FD, so telling her would be pointless.
Quote from: Yuki Ijuin on February 04, 2009, 10:03:54 AM
Everyone here are fascinated by watersports or FD...
Well, for me it's just something that I don't mind, doesn't really have a fetish for it. I'm more into... errr... feet. :blushing:
Anyways, I'm still young and doesn't have a girlfriend, active imagination makes for alot of fantasies though. XD
Well it's easier to tell somebody you think feet are cute than to tell her you want to see her wet herself, so it would work as an icebreaker for "trading fetish secrets" so to speak. XD
Well, in my country, they're not that open minded about sexualism. I think it'll be an equally bad idea to announce that you have a love of feet or love of FD here. Unless you find a sexual deviant, which would be totally awesome.
Quote from: Yuki Ijuin on February 04, 2009, 04:34:38 PM
Well, in my country, they're not that open minded about sexualism. I think it'll be an equally bad idea to announce that you have a love of feet or love of FD here. Unless you find a sexual deviant, which would be totally awesome.
What country are you from? Its not that this is abnormal because there are a lot of countries where society sees it not only in taboo terms but even worse lights. I am just curious about the particular mindset that would lead to such a negative attitude toward fetishism in your country.
I'm from... a SE Asian country. I don't know if the rules apply here, it starts with an M. This is the internet, and I don't want this site to close down. Neither do I want to be banned, so I suppose that much hint is enough?
know one knows, its my private thing, both the anime and the wetting. I woould have loved to meet someone, but back whne that was a real opportunity, the net was just someones dream
only person i ever told about it was an ex. she wasn't very sexual to begin with and she really wasn't into fd at all. she indulged me a couple of times, but i tended to want more and it just wasn't generally for our relationship.
I haven't told anyone at all. I'm kinda afraid of what they'd think. Which is weird because I'm usually pretty open about a lot. Meh, maybe eventually I'll tell someone. -_-
My now ex-girlfriend knows about it, i told her in a drunken moment a year or so after we got together. She's was never so in to the desperation though, and I never got her to wet herself.
I do have some other friends who know I have an ongoing fetish (a couple of whom share it ); generally only those I trust; but there's a number more who know I've had golden showers before... i had that question asked by someone in a large group, and being the drunkie that I was, I didn't quite say no XD
Edit: What do people think the best way to tell someone is? I once ended up having a conversation about sex with someone, and we got in to things that turn you on... and I kinda just blurted it out. I don't find it a hard thing to -say- particularly. its just the right moment never really pops up... you can't really slip it in anywhere. "Oh hey, how's your car going after the other day?" "Oh good. Hey did i mention i'd love you to wet yourself right now?" o.O
The best way to say it is IMO how you described in your post... get them into a conversation of fetishes in general, and then it comes off as no big deal. They won't think you're a creep because they told you stuff that's likely equally as weird.
hahahaha, yeh right! no-one knows about this side of me. I'd have no friends if people knew!
Quote from: clazidge on April 04, 2009, 05:55:55 PM
hahahaha, yeh right! no-one knows about this side of me. I'd have no friends if people knew!
I'm sure it won't be that bad. Absolute worst-case scenario, they'll think you're weird and/or a perv. But that's highly unlikely to happen if you say it under the right circumstances, let alone that they won't haul ass out of your life as fast as they can.
Quote from: AliasnameTO on April 04, 2009, 09:09:42 PM
I'm sure it won't be that bad. Absolute worst-case scenario, they'll think you're weird and/or a perv. But that's highly unlikely to happen if you say it under the right circumstances, let alone that they won't haul ass out of your life as fast as they can.
Let it be known that telling a girl about your fetish while drunkenly hitting on her at a party is not "the right circumstances." :no:
Err...not that I'd know about that. :sweatdrop:
Quote from: clazidge on April 04, 2009, 05:55:55 PM
hahahaha, yeh right! no-one knows about this side of me. I'd have no friends if people knew!
it's not that bad. my friends we're generally excepting. i lost a few friends and gained some new ones. the ones i lost turned out to be unfaithful jerks who we're only my friends for what i had (a massive TV and a hand full of game systems). bring up the conversation "what turns u on" and go from there
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Quote from: AliasnameTO on March 31, 2009, 08:52:19 PM
The best way to say it is IMO how you described in your post... get them into a conversation of fetishes in general, and then it comes off as no big deal. They won't think you're a creep because they told you stuff that's likely equally as weird.
Agreed. My coming out of the closet on the subject of FD to my friends was a bit of a non event because of it. We were talking about what floats our respective boats, I said mine, and was met with a 'Yeah? So? My dad likes that too'.
I told a girlfriend I had when I was 16....but our relationship started falling apart once we weren't allowed to see each other anymore and so I started dating a guy when I was still 16, and I told him about the fetish only around 2 months of dating, and we've been together 2 years now. I did tell a friend, but our friendship is fading fast, so I told him I wasn't into it anymore, since he's the type that might get spiteful once he realizes we're really not friends anymore and tell people about it.
I had a girlfriend once when i was like 18 or 19 well around that time we had been dating for like 3 months and she wanted to know what turned me on so i asked her what turned her on and she told me that she found the act of washing or cleaning sexy so I thought wow we might be a perfect match i like to wet myself then she could punish me by making me clean it up. So I told her and she freaked out and old her friends -which really pissed me off cause her friends were just real bitches and thought I was an abomination I don't know why- Back to the story well her friends came into my house and trashed it and when I got back to my apartment and saw the mess -which my landlord saw and got really pissed off about and tried to evict me(but he had caught me doing other stuff, I used to be an alcoholic but i'm good now- My girlfriend felt bad about what her friends did came and helped me clean my house But what happened there was she had to go really bad but I was in the Bathroom at the time so she peed all over her self and I don't want to get into to much detail for her sake, we had sex and then she broke up with me again And that was the first girl i came out to willingly (most of my other girlfriends/boyfriends found out by themselves)
I have told a few people, both romantic interest and friends. Nothing bad thank god. although once I did have one of the girls tell her mom. :death: Surprisingly the mom was cool with it. But that was just to weird. Other than that they went over smooth.
Only some really close friends know about it (and I bet almost half of them has forgotten it by now ;)) plus my last 3 ex-girlfriends (no, the "ex" doesn't come from the confession) and my actual girlfriend (I doubt you are here but if you read this: Feel thanked and loved for what you are and for what you are for me). All of them were either indifferent (the friends) or a mixture of curious, proud of beeing trusted with such a secret and a little flabbergasted - after all, it isn't a really common fetish ;)
W.
I have a number of friends on line who know, but very few (2 not in my family) know the real me in person, and I likely will keep it that way.
I've only told my brother, just so he could know what kind of pron I wanted when he visited Japan. I think my mother has an idea, but I have some regular porn to throw her off track. But for the most part, I'm still in the closet. I think it's for the best, since teenagers in high school aren't well-known for accepting diversity; I'm quite self-conscious, and I'm afraid to let people in RL know that part of me.
I've never had the guts to tell a single person. There were a couple girlfriends i wanted to tell, girls i knew would mostly likely be willing to try some stuff out, but in the end I chickened out and never did. :( I regret that sometimes heh, one day I will....maybe.
Quote from: B.u.S. on May 03, 2008, 06:35:13 PM
Quote from: akemi on May 02, 2008, 01:11:21 PM
is my private fetish, i'm not interested in someone kwons it, plus a met a nice girl on internet who is into this too, and sometimes we talk about pee
I've had this a number of times, but you need to be careful about how often you talk about it. Sometimes you find that all you know about someone is that they mentioned they may try it, and that seems to be all you can bring up in conversation. You may drive them away talking about it too much, so if you do talk a lot with her take it easy and get to know more about her. If you already do, make conversation - if pee comes into the convo by "accident" (pardon the pun) then go with it.
I was reading the first page and fonf my post XD long time but...
That girl, I met her on peesearch so no problem then, I don't talk about pee to other people. Thanks for caring =D
all my friends, or at least my close ones know of my fetish, i ended up telling one (who would eventually become my girlfriend) when she almost wet herself on a train and i explained why i acted oddly throughout the ordeal :lol: then i slowly let everyone else know, no one really cares, although a few harmless jokes are occassionaly made
I'm quite the blunt person with my true friends so I will eventually admit to a good friend about my fetish. I usually am open about my curiosity in female sexuality and have asked my female friends about their sexual habits and yes, even fetishes. (some can end up quite kinky too...) Eventually, however, this leads to the same questions directed back at me and so I eventually (with some proding) admit to them about my FD fetish. To my surprise everyone seems really quite accept of it. However, so far no girlfriend has ever had my confession on this subject. :P
Yes, I've told my girlfriend about my fetishes and she's got no problem, even indulges me when I ask every so often. Honesty is the best policy.... well with somebody you're already comfortable with obviously not really first date material but people are more accepting than you would think... well unless you happen to be dating some neo-conservative you'll probably be happily surprised by the results.
Well, I've just told my new boyfriend about it! I'm so glad about the way it went. We've tried to emphasize honesty and openness so this conversation happened while we were driving to his friend's house.
(After discussing crossdressing, another kink of mine that he's okay with)
Me: And that's not even my worst one!
Him: All right, tell me your worst one!
Me: Uh... Heh. Well...
Him: If you're not comfortable telling me you don't have to say it.
Me: It's better if you know, but it's just something that nearly ruined a past relationship... so...
Him: Right.
Me: Okay, we'll just start with the simplest aspect of it...
(Pregnant pause)
Me: How would you feel if... ah... C-Can I watch you pee? (braces for reaction)
(Another pregnant pause)
Him: Yeah! Okay.
Me: ... Wh-What. Really? REALLY?
Him: Yeah! That's fine, whatever floats your boat. You can even, like, hold it if you want...
Me: That'd be lovely, yes.
Him: I mean, It'd be a little different if you wanted me to... pee ON you...
Me: Oh we don't have to do that then.
Him: Well, okay... that's just something I'd have to think about for a while.
Me: Uhkay.
(pause)
Me: Thanks for not thinking I'm disgusting.
Him: It's no problem at all.
(Several moments pass)
Him: (chuckle)
Me: What?
Him: How could I think you're disgusting? You're so cute...
Me: :blushing:
The other aspects will be revealed as they come but so far... I pretty much just told him my deepest, darkest secret and he barely batted an eye. We're both so glad it's out there now. God, I think I'm in love, people! (swoon)
Wow DC. That really is a keeper!
Quote from: DubiousCharms on March 28, 2010, 09:22:29 AM
Well, I've just told my new boyfriend about it! I'm so glad about the way it went. We've tried to emphasize honesty and openness so this conversation happened while we were driving to his friend's house.
(After discussing crossdressing, another kink of mine that he's okay with)
Me: And that's not even my worst one!
Him: All right, tell me your worst one!
Me: Uh... Heh. Well...
Him: If you're not comfortable telling me you don't have to say it.
Me: It's better if you know, but it's just something that nearly ruined a past relationship... so...
Him: Right.
Me: Okay, we'll just start with the simplest aspect of it...
(Pregnant pause)
Me: How would you feel if... ah... C-Can I watch you pee? (braces for reaction)
(Another pregnant pause)
Him: Yeah! Okay.
Me: ... Wh-What. Really? REALLY?
Him: Yeah! That's fine, whatever floats your boat. You can even, like, hold it if you want...
Me: That'd be lovely, yes.
Him: I mean, It'd be a little different if you wanted me to... pee ON you...
Me: Oh we don't have to do that then.
Him: Well, okay... that's just something I'd have to think about for a while.
Me: Uhkay.
(pause)
Me: Thanks for not thinking I'm disgusting.
Him: It's no problem at all.
(Several moments pass)
Him: (chuckle)
Me: What?
Him: How could I think you're disgusting? You're so cute...
Me: :blushing:
The other aspects will be revealed as they come but so far... I pretty much just told him my deepest, darkest secret and he barely batted an eye. We're both so glad it's out there now. God, I think I'm in love, people! (swoon)
Sounds like a nice guy, a rare thing indeed! Best of luck!
Glad things went well for you, D.C.! :)
As for me...I think I'll stay firmly IN the closet, thankyew. I don't want any family or friends finding out. If I were ever to pursue a *serious* relationship, then I guess I would need to bring it up. But otherwise, no way. Seriously, I hope when the time comes for me to die that I have enough advance warning to wipe my hard drive of any evidence of my fetish...:/
Technically, while I like FD, I guess my greatest fetish is 'girls on the toilet.' Not hardcore scat, nor watersports, but watching girls relieve themselves.
I've never told anyone, but my dad found out when I was quite young. When I was about 10 I had just discovered two things; that my dick was good for more than peeing, and the internet. It's strange, I never really realized how into female desperation I was, even though I have vivid memories from when I was about 5 fantasizing about girls wetting themselves (in the McDonalds ballpen/giant slide things no less), until I looked into it online. Anyway, that was before I knew how to wipe search engine histories, and the only way I could figure out how to keep it from coming up when someone used Google was to search stuff that was alphabetically before it. One day I got careless, and my dad saw it (I still have no idea what he was doing on my computer, as it was mine and he had his own). What followed was the most awkward conversation of my life. We never mentioned it again, and I sometimes wonder whether he even remembers it. He thinks it was just a fad, but boy was he wrong.
That kind of scarred me about telling people. I almost told a pair of my friends when I was talking to them online. They were talking about their fetishes, as theya re quite open about sexual stuff and I almost said something, but I decided not to at the last second. I've always been quite closed about sexual stuff, and while I'm very, very sure they would have been ok with it, I was just afraid that they would let it slip and tell my girlfriend or something, as I'm sure she would not be ok with it, or that they would think of me differently in some way.
One day I might tell people about it, but that is not this day.
This is private for me, but I'm sure if I had a boyfriend that I was serious about, I would definitely tell him.
I might even tell my close girl friends but only if the question of fetishes came up, but they would have to tell me their dirt too!
It hasn't come up so I see no need to talk about it.
@speenza
Hmm. I remember when I was like 13, I was fantasizing about my crush completely losing control, wetting and soiling herself in the middle of the school's hallway.
I barely knew what sex, fetishes, masturbation, porn, etc. were back then. :S
Quote from: Ameboes on June 04, 2010, 01:52:06 AM
@speenza
Hmm. I remember when I was like 13, I was fantasizing about my crush completely losing control, wetting and soiling herself in the middle of the school's hallway.
I barely knew what sex, fetishes, masturbation, porn, etc. were back then. :S
Haha that's how it starts, right? Even before you hit puberty, you already have an interest in it xD
The only person I have ever told was my Ex-Girlfriend. This was a little over a year ago, sometime in April. She said there should be no secrets between us, but it took so much courage to tell her.
We had been boyfriend girlfriend for two-and-a-half years. I said that I had an odd fetish and it wasn't until 25 minutes after I said that when I actually had the courage to tell her.
Once I told her, her immediate response was that she laughed at me. Whenever the subject came up the following couple of days, the response always was that she laughed at me.
After that, the most she ever did for me and my fetish was she let me watch her use the toilet a few times. Thats it.
And last October she dumped me for another guy. She also thinks I have some mental disease or something.
Besides her, I've told no one.
And yes... I am a new user here. It actually took a bit of courage to even post this.
I told a long-distance male friend in South Korea about it, but he didn't seem to mind (not to mention his main fetish is bondage).
I have also have a female friend who I suspect knows I'm into it, but she's never said anything.
I can't imagine telling anyone I come across in my daily life about my...interests, I'll put it. To be honest, there's no real need for anyone to know about it, as nothing that could significantly impact me or them has come from it. The only reason I'm telling you guys is because none of you have any idea of who I am in real life, and vice versa.
If it gets to be a problem, the first person I'll tell is my therapist. ;)
Just a week ago, I told my girlfriend about it. As far as I can tell, she took it pretty well (especially since judging from my behaviour beforehand, she could probably have guessed). How it will play out, we shall see. I assured here that if she stumpled upon any kind of fetish / preference she has, I'd do my best to get used to that as well.
As I said, it still remains to be seen how knowing the fact affects our relationship (positively, I hope ^^) - even more so since now I can't really do those innocent "don't go to the bathroom, c'mon, stay for a few more minutes" games with her any more. Probably.
Also, I only see her once every other week, so finding out what will come of it might take some time.
I had a rather long chat with some doctor at the asylum, during which I ended up telling about this fetish, too. I've yet to see what will come of it, I'm curious if they'll try to convince me to undergo some sort of treatment. If they do, I think I'll refuse...
On the other hand, this wasn't the most embarrassing thing to come up, so I don't care all too much.
I'm very impressed by the bravery of a lot of you. I'm petrified of anyone ever finding out. Reading this thread has made me actually consider admitting it to my girlfriend (of about a year). It sounds like most people took it pretty well, but I'm still a little freaked out by the notion of admitting what has been my deepest secret for my whole life.
Always tell! ...eventually. Dr. thunder, since you've been with your girlfriend for about a year, if you trust her and it's a good relationship, I urge you to tell her. This goes for everyone.
People in committed relationships should definitely share their kinks. I told my last girlfriend and was treated to stories of desperation events in her life, views of her in the bathroom, and unspeakably hot times when she would hold it as long as possible...and beyond :drool:
It didn't turn her on really, but she was willing to do it because she cared about me, and it led to her getting amazing sex because i was so turned on. In turn, we explored her fantasies too.
I think this is where relationships should go over time - commitment means trust, means exploration.
Good luck to all!
I've only really told 2 of my IRL friends, when we were discussing our fetishes, and to be honest both of those are great friends (who would also make great girlfriends :lol:) but neither of them would really be into it enough to do stuff for me I don't think, however if I did get a girlfriend who didn't know about my fetish, I don't know whether I'd be inclined to tell them. Probably after a while, but not straight away.
On a fairly unrelated note 5000 get (This is the 5000th post on the FD board :gunsmilie:).
Never told anyone, outside of some people i know only online and rp with, and it pread pretty quick that i like it as a few cracked jokes on it. no one really cares.
MY parents did find when i downloaded a few ws images when i was like 13, when i had not learned the concept of "clear browser history and cache" Sometimes I wonder if they actually know im into it, but there is no way in hell I'm gonna ask and confirm it.
I've always been reluctant to tell anyone about this, even if the subject of fetishes came up. I have told a few people though, generally they just said "Aw, thats cute" or something. I told my best friend online and we talked about it for a while. I don't mind people knowing about it, I just don't like to... admit it, if that makes sense. It's just hard to say "I like to see girls desperate to pee and have an accident" :s