I just wanted to know if you like girls wetting themselves because of fear more than ordinary desperation. To answer this question myself, I like feardesperation a little more
Fear wetting beyond a shadow of a doubt. I can also enjoy (if they're well done and not horrendously gory) guro pain/death wetting, and normal desperation. But nothing is as fun for me as anime girls wetting out of fear.
I prefer desperation. I never really was into the fetish because of wetting or peeing, just the desperation.
desperations nice but dear wettings seem more believeable somehow, i like both
I prefer rergular rather than fear, but I'll take whatever I can get!
i feel EXACTLY the same way qx2 , seriously its the desperation and the reaction that make it worthwhile
Fear? Not really, it's just not the same as desperation.
fear wetting is ok, but so is desperation wetting. i have seen little of it myself in the real world.
i've seen both in my lifetime, however fear wasnt as much fear as shock wetting, believe me they're both worth working for
I like all 3 types (Fear, desp. and willing) but I'd say desperation is the best.
wellllllllllllll i hate wetting, but if it has to be one or the other, desperation. Well, its just one of those moments where the girl is aware that she's doing it, so she knows its going to be embarassing but it could affect her health if she holds it. Fear, is where youre not really conscious so...well...i dunno how to explain that part.
My favorite would have to be desperation as well. It's just more realistic, which is why it's sexy. It actually could happen to a cute girl tomorrow, but being tied up won't. I also think the control aspect of fear kinda turns me off a bit.
Fear, of course. this way, the girl will be more embarrassed after peeing out of fear. And their facial expression is priceless..
ordinary desperation for me
desperation wetting of course, is sexier, is simple the best :gunsmilie:
desp rules
I like both. Desperation of course, and fear wetting only if it's not caused by torture/bondage or that sort of thing. I think fear wetting is hot if someone sneaks up on the girl and startles her, causing her to wet herself a little.
I like fear wetting because to me the most important part is the end result being the girl wetting herself and if it is fear she will wet or poop herself but if it is just desperation she has a chance of getting out of it and peeing on the floor, outside, make it to the toilet etc, etc, etc.
So, I prefer fear, then desperation, then doing it on purpose. And like banedon I can also enjoy (if they're well done) guro pain/death wetting,
This is a difficult question... The way I see it, if it's just due to fear, the girl would probably feel a diffusion of responsibility... Something frightened her, so it's not really her fault she got the piss scared out of her. The humiliation of having the means of getting to a washroom, or at least pulling down her pants, but not managing to do it in time (as is the case with desperation), is much more humiliating, which is a big part of the attraction. So I'll say desperation, though fear seems to be a more precious stone.. People don't seem to write about fear wetting quite as much :(
Quote from: ltmt on April 14, 2008, 10:15:54 PMPeople don't seem to write about fear wetting quite as much :(
I assume because if a girl is scared to the point of wetting herself, there's more going on than her worrying about that, like if there's a psycho yelling and pointing a gun at her or something. That's not really stimulating to me, just sounds like a really crappy day.
I like the desperation (there's more pee), although deliberate is cool too.
fear kind of makes me feel sick
bed wetting is the best.
Definitely Desperation;I don`t like Guro/Death and Fear Wetting in Animes often leads to stuff of that kind..
I like them both ! :clap:
its all good as long as its not on purpose even though that can be nice too
theres some rly good fear ones like in the grudge 2 that was rly sweet =D
I think for me the most important part is that it's unintentional. But even so, desperation is a little better because it seems more realistic. Of course, if she's already desperate but gets pushed over the edge by a little scare, that can be even better. And in any case, if helps if I can see it coming out.
I haven't seen enough fear ones, but hey, they still wet themselves, so I don't care. :D
Well desperation is fear in a sense, the fear of losing control. So they're kinda the same. So, I guess I'd say both.
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They are both very different, but to me, both very enjoyable.
Both are good, but i'd say a fear wetting takes top spot. It's like extra loss of control, but either way the end result is the same so it's all good to :clap:
I haven't found any "Fear" wettings, so, I'll take Desperation. If bedwetting (By accident, not on purpose cause they're too lazy to walk to a toilet) were an option, I'd have taken that. Hard to find, but I really enjoy it. (That's all anime wise, bassically the same for real-life though.)
Desperation, because most fear wetting is really to hard core for me I just am not turned on by girls screaming, kind of makes me feel bad even though I know its fake. :crying:
Fear is good, regular is good. I like the whole embarassing side to it ^_^
I personally like desperation a lot more. It's the whole trying to hold it back as much as you can but losing control is what I like.
I wouldn't say I like one more than the other, because they are very different. I guess I like them both equally. I have seen more accidents in real life to due desperation and inability to reach a bathroom in time (seen that many, many times), but I've only seen fear wetting a couple of times, always due to being startled. In real life my number one concern is always to comfort her (if she's my girlfriend, which in all stated cases above she was), though.
A high strung girl with a weak bladder is an interesting combination, let me tell you :clap:
In somethine like anime, or another medium of entertainment (stories, etc) then I think I'd have to go with fear wetting only because it's so rare.
I'm not sure...I think I'd actually like fear more, 'cause it's completely involuntary or something:S Still, I like both 'versions'
Theyre both pretty amazing to be honest!
But if i had to choose one... I think id pick fear. Simply because the wetting is completely involuntary.
A mixture of the two would be a treat to watch :drool: Imagine a desperate girl scared into wetting ;)
its all good but i remember this one where this girl is bursting to pee and she goes to all these stalls and theyre all locked then something comes up behind her looking all scary and she just lets it go...i have it as a .gif but ill bet theres a movie/episode of the whole story.
anyone know what im talking about?
Its always been desperation for me, but the occasional scare pee can be pretty nice.
Quote from: tamagotchi140 on October 25, 2008, 11:55:39 PM
its all good but i remember this one where this girl is bursting to pee and she goes to all these stalls and theyre all locked then something comes up behind her looking all scary and she just lets it go...i have it as a .gif but ill bet theres a movie/episode of the whole story.
anyone know what im talking about?
Yeah, thats a scene from Maniax. It is covered in detail in the stickied thread in this forum that lists all the known wettings scenes from anime/hentai vids.
Well fear wetting is nice because it happens directly and the girls can't avoid it. But I prefer desperation wetting.
i prefer desperation because they try to fihgt it then they lose
IMHO, fear can imply pain, whereas desperation just equates to total frustration. I guess it's an "either" as long as it's resolved with a a sigh...
For me, it is really about the loss of control. Yes, there is some of that in fear wetting, but not to the extent of desperation. Although I find that the effect is spoiled in the desperation scenes where she just "gives up" and pees voluntarily.
Desperation pee for me. Fear peeing is just fine too, but more often than not I find a lot of fear ones come in situations where the emotions that are running counteract the feeling of sexual excitement, again there's absolutely nothing wrong with fear peeing whatsoever, just my personal views.
Gotta say the regular desperation. The fear aspect makes the girls focus on the fear more than the wetting and I love it when they try to hold back as its coming out.
I think it all depends about the situatuation and the means of which it presented. I think that when it comes to anime or asian girls, its hotter as regular desperation. When it comes to western cuture, its more along the lines of fear based accidents
I think regular desperation is a bigger issue. Personally, the fear just seems too dominating. I don't see desperation as a power thing; it's just a chance situation that's impossible to control, and that's what I like about it.
Eh, fear kinda spoils the feeling with a serious sense of danger compared to embarrassment. As for desperation, struggling's the best, though giving up (not deliberately though) also works in showing the weakness part of it all.
For me, desperation is the most important point. I prefer wetting which came from 100% pure desperation and then losing control, not from fear. Wetting from fear is like some kind of forced and looks unnatural.
To tell you the truth, i'm a little of column A and column B. However, i think a mix of the two is absolutely perfect.
Theres actually a pretty good story on it on S&G's Desperation site. After driving for several hours, a desperate girl is scared by another person, at which she starts wetting in a panic. The story, however, ends in gratuitous sex, which is just icing on the cake in my opinion.
As it's been said, a mix of the two is pure gold. A fine example is the Ali Maniax scene. The cop was looking for a toilet, sees the demon, and lets go in fright. For me I always focus on the actual peeing a little more, so really either one works. I have to say fear often satisfies me a little more though.
I see that here are fewer people who love the wetting fear than the female desperation. We can form a club for fearwetting lovers...
I'd join :D, but I think it'd be too small to be considered a sub-fetish. Fear wetting, desperation wetting, bed wetting, I think it all falls into a spectrum of the clothing-wetting fetish. I think that's way any type has potential to turn ME on. They are all unique though in how they happen and the emotions and reactions that surround them.
I've noticed that each form is sort of backed by another larger turn-on. People who are enticed by the struggle to hold on like the desperation pee. The humiliation aspect, although more identified with the desperation wetting, also can play a role in the aftermath of fear wetting. It's also interesting how much they overlap. They both involve a loss of control, it's just a matter of how. I could go on forever talking about ways women pee their pants, but I don't want the turn on to wear off...
I like fear wetting especially when someone sneaks up on a girl scares them and they wet their pants. it's even better when they cry from embarasment afterward.
I like desperation wetting better. With fear, they could have just a few drops in their bladder, and it only comes out because they get scared. But with desperation wetting, you know that they are wetting themselves because they're bladders couldn't hold it any longer. I think that's more of a turn on.
Yeah but why choose. Why not a situation where a girl is already very desperate to pee but the coup de grâce is an occurence that causes a fear wetting? Best of both worlds, and an ideal wetting in my book. I love both the fear and and the humiliation afterward...i guess i'm kind of a sadist.. :icon_twisted:
Personally, I prefer desperation wetting. Although that's because I don't really care about the actual wetting, I really just like the desperation aspect
I am like many on here, in that desperation is the main thing I'm interested in. I get absolutely nothing out of watching the actual wetting (fear or otherwise) and usually quit reading/watching when the wetting begins because my fun is over for that story/video.