What is the general opinion about shyness regarding desperation? Would you rather see a girl fidgeting, dancing, holding herself and saying she needs to pee, or one who's somewhat ashamed of it and tries to hide it, but can't help squirming a bit anyway?
Personally, I think it's better if they try to keep it covert, like they don't want people to know they have to go. The shame is a big part of the turn-on for me, and it makes for much more disastrous accidents rather than "oh crap, I peed myself, that sucks." Not to mention that I think shyness in general is cute.
What do you guys think?
I think most of the replies here will favor shyness. :lol:
Anyway, i also like it when girls try to hide their desperation out of shyness. It makes the whole thing more realistic if they really don't want anyone to notice. It's not so much desperation if a girl doesn't even care if people see her peeing her pants, and the only downside to her is having to change clothing.
Most of the girls i went to school with were shameless about it though. Practically yelled about their bladders exploding if the teacher didn't let them leave. :lol:
Never actually seen a girl wet herself, though I agree with the above posters - Shyness = AWESOME!
Well, I'm most attracted to women who are almost my exact opposite. I can be painfully shy, particularly where desperation is concerned. I will straight up lie to people who wonder why I'm squirming or ask if I need to use the bathroom...I just don't like admitting it to people. So, naturally, I most love women who have no problems being completely obvious about their desperation, who talk about needing to use the bathroom, etc. Of course, my EXACT opposite would mean that she'd also be completely shameless about wetting herself in public, and, uh...yeah. That's insanely, unbelievably hot to me. :drool:
Quote from: B.u.S. on May 09, 2009, 03:41:09 AMand one was a bit shy but she liked it before I met her... so YEH AWESOME :D
She liked it before you met her? Did anything happen between you two? If so, buckets of win.
First of all, shy = cute.
After that, I really like only real or realistic scenes (not porny girls that pee for a camera) so shyness and shame would be better.
I don't think common girls like to show to anyone that their bladder is bursting. xD
I like shyness. In my experience, girls who are vocal about having tyo pee seem to have fewer accidents, and if they do, the accidents are over dramatic. It's more realistic to have a girl be shy.
^ I also don't like the porn-y girls who pee for the camera.
i like it when girls are shy,it adds to the realness of a situation,and they dont say anything to any1 until its to late
I prefer the shy ones ;)
It is just more... realistic (?), I mean... who would not try to conceal the urge and the result. On the other hand, hearing "I need to go now and fast" from my girlfriend ist also a turn on, so both CAN be nice.
I think shy girls are better for this kind of thing for a number of reasons, for example they are probably going to wait longer to mention they have to go, meaning there's a better chance they won't get the opportunity.
I like the idea of a girl being desperate but trying to hide it because she's shy.
A girl who isn't shy about this kind of thing would probably just go find a place to do it.
Quote from: Visitor02 on May 30, 2009, 02:42:40 AMit just seems like half of the point is seeing how they express themselves.
The ENTIRE point of FD (if you count wetting separately) is how they express themselves. Trying to hide it but being unable to do so is better than saying "ohh my bladder's gonna pop!!"
shy ones
cuz the chance of wetting is high :icon_twisted:
If she's not shy about it, it's not so cute and sexy. Although it's okay if she admits it to a friend, as long as she keeps having to hide it, as there are other people around.
i like a shy girl who tries to hide it but eventually cant hold it any more and is forced to admit it and go into a full dance, but non-shy is good also.
I like the girls beeing shy at the start of the desperation, but getting more and more obviously desperate as their bladders are reaching their limits. Don´t you think it would be boring, if the girls peed themselves without anybody able to notice it?
Shyness is a very cute trait indeed, but there's more opportunity for humour and misadventure if the girl makes no secret of her needs. Especially when she's hopping and dancing about, telling anyone who will listen about her situation and how bad it is but it doesn't actually achieve anything.
A sort of tsundere personality laid low, it seems. Perhaps becoming shyer as she doesn't get the help she needs as she slinks off, legs crossed, to find relief herself. Most likely unsuccessfully.
Some people likes the horny feeling of watching a girl wetting herself, but...
What do you think is better: a explicit and obvious wetting, or a wetting wich is done so discreetly, and you don't really know what is happening, untill you see a puddle, or the girl sobbing???
oh, my god, I started one topic like this...Shyness it's the best!!!! I thinks it's more real than the other way. The pee dance is done in a few situations, but not in all of the situations .
personally I love shyness.. she tries to act like nothing is wrong but her bladder is a time bomb waiting to go off. i also love the embarasment that occurs after a girl wets herself.
I agree. It's so much cuter when the girl's desperate, but is doing her best not to show it, because she's shy.
That means that they're probably less likely to hold themselves until it's too late.
Plus, the reaction is always so much cuter. ^////^
I know when I read/write I prefer a shy girl's struggle, before a wetting, more than a girl who's just
open about it.
Maybe because a shy girl would be more apt to get into a desperation incident after, oh, say,
a car trip, and as everyone asks if they have to go, after a lot of complaining about the time there,
the shy girl is more likely to say she's fine, and end up having to hold it as long as she can, before either
wetting, or having to squat on the side of the road (if she'll even do that)
So, to summarize...
Shyness=<3
Quote from: Faust on August 10, 2009, 07:20:17 PM
I agree. It's so much cuter when the girl's desperate, but is doing her best not to show it, because she's shy.
That means that they're probably less likely to hold themselves until it's too late.
Plus, the reaction is always so much cuter. ^////^
I know when I read/write I prefer a shy girl's struggle, before a wetting, more than a girl who's just
open about it.
Maybe because a shy girl would be more apt to get into a desperation incident after, oh, say,
a car trip, and as everyone asks if they have to go, after a lot of complaining about the time there,
the shy girl is more likely to say she's fine, and end up having to hold it as long as she can, before either
wetting, or having to squat on the side of the road (if she'll even do that)
So, to summarize...
Shyness=<3
The combination of a shy girl and a long journey with no breaks is a delicious one indeed. I'm almost tempted to make a fic of that, it's one of my favourite situations.
I think shyness is better because it lets your imagination dictate how desperate she is. It is a lot more of a turn on that way. Like when she's squirming and every time you look at her, she tries to smile, but her expression is more of a grimace. You then know she is trying to hide the fact that her bladder is full. That is so sexy.
Quote from: r3 on August 11, 2009, 03:20:55 PMI'm almost tempted to make a fic of that, it's one of my favourite situations.
You should do it, in two parts-- one part from a close friend's point of view, and another from hers. I can almost see it already :p.
Quote from: AliasnameTO on August 11, 2009, 07:44:11 PM
Quote from: r3 on August 11, 2009, 03:20:55 PMI'm almost tempted to make a fic of that, it's one of my favourite situations.
You should do it, in two parts-- one part from a close friend's point of view, and another from hers. I can almost see it already :p.
I need to fill a request I promised I'd do first, but then I'll probably make a start on that!
I stand by what I said before.
Helplessness and humiliation are a big part of my fetish, and shyness can create an interesting kind of helplessness, one that is inflicted by the desperate girl herself. The car ride is an excellent example. I do also love the moment when the embarrassed girl is finally forced to break down and tell the driver that he/she needs to stop. It's even sexier if the driver decides not to listen to her.
For me, shy is the only way that makes any sense at all. If the girl had no qualms about people knowing she had to pee, she'd just squat and do what she had to do, no problem. Only a shy girl would get into desperation in the first place.
Quote from: DesperateV on August 12, 2009, 06:16:55 PMIt's even sexier if the driver decides not to listen to her.
Well chances are she's in the car with her family/friends/romantic partner, so I'm not really a fan of that. But if she decides to tell the driver at a really inopportune time, like if they're in a gridlock or on the highway with no rest stops, it's easier to believe.
I'll admit that the scenario is unlikely in real life, but I like finding out (either from the driver's P.O.V. or suspected from the desperate person's P.O.V.) that the driver is enjoying the desperation and hopes to prolong it. Or the driver could simply be one of those stubborn drivers who never wants to stop for any reason, and doesn't understand how desperate his/her passenger really is.
There are ways to make it somewhat believable.
Quote from: DesperateV on August 13, 2009, 05:32:11 PMdoesn't understand how desperate his/her passenger really is.
This would make for a cool story, because the shy girl wouldn't want to admit she's about to wet herself, so the driver would underestimate her need and not care enough to stop hehe.
I like it when girls are very blatant about it. Shouting i need to pee and things like that is really hot. I know, however, that in real life most girls are more shy about desperation... unfortunately.
Going to the car thing, I had an idea.
perhaps the girl's car Broke down (or ran out of gas) and ended up hitch hiking?
Some random person could pick her up, and remain oblivious of her Desperations, intentionally or otherwise.
Shyness in the early stages of desperation is very enticing and a definite turn-on. However, as time passes and the desperation builds, I like when the shyness gets overruled by the demanding urge to pee and causes a normally shy person to squirm. Later she demands to be excused from the class before she has an accident, clutches her crotch in obvious agony, moans, and generally make a fuss to all around her to be allowed to seek relief elsewhere. What a shift in personality, from shy "wallflower" to outspoken maiden seeking to release a distended bladder!
I like to call that the demure pantie pee. A classic example was in grade two when a girl sat quietly face flush and violently trembling from her panic and sheer effort of trying not to pee her panties that very moment. She never grabbed, but everybody around her knew she was absolutely desperate. And she did indeed pee her panties.
I like my shy girls, has to be all the way though, from the moment they start feeling the first twinges in their bladder to when they're leaking. If the girl suppresses her need and any signs of it all throughout her ordeal, it gives me an almost instant happy.
So long as I can see some desperation before it, and can tell that she did indeed pee herself, either one's fine by me.
Quote from: yat282 on August 24, 2009, 05:42:49 PM
discreet, definately. this reminds me of another topic with more posts, is this question somewhere else?
It is; there's another thread called "Shyness" started by me.
I would like to see shyness at first. You know, a girl trying to hide her desperation at first. But as her desperation grows I would like to see her do a pee-pee dance, maybe even crotch grabbing.
As many of you have said, shyness and desperation are a super fun combination...
But I would love to see an outspoken, self-confident girl wet herself even more. One who isn't afraid to let people know of her desperation, but would be devastated if she actually wound up pissing herself. I've known a couple girls with small bladders who weren't afraid to vocalize their need for a pee, and would clutch themselves if they were very desperate. I never saw them piss themselves, but if they ever did, their humiliation would be paramount, and that's my main concern. :icon_twisted:
Yeah, saw one of them holding herself at a party, knees bent, knocking on the only bathroom's door. God, if she'd wet herself... I don't even know what I'd have done. Same girl once told me about her brother wetting the bed, and I asked her jokingly if she'd had the same problem (it is genetic isn't it?). She gave me the dirrrrtiest look. I got my answer I guess, Bawhawhaw.