While I'm normally adverse to hurting people, there are times when I just want to "vent" and might consider being the dom sometimes... :icon_twisted:
I like being in control, that's for sure... to make the girl lose control in as many ways as I can... I'm much like my RP character Nanyo a little in that way.... LOL
FallenStar
Uh...Bondage? No thanks. That's just to evil for me. I admit that I like the idea of tying a girl to a tree, pole, or other object keeping her from using the bathroom, but all that other stuff gets a little over the top for me.
bondage not really into but if i could make a girl wet i would like that
I like BDSM to an extent. I like everything except when hooks ala(http://i76.photobucket.com/albums/j11/brainfuck3r/nose_bondage.jpg)
Sure do, when it's done right.
The whole goal of BDSM for me is to put my partner in a situation where she is disoriented, outside her comfort zone and feeling helpless. It's about power and control more then it is about inflicting pain. Pain is a punishment (or reward).
My favorite thing to do is to give my partner a "devils deal" promising her a reward if she does some nearly impossible task. For example, In order to use the bathroom, you must first wait 20 minutes. Now, thats a good start, but lets make it harder. Have her hold a glass of water in each hand, arms outstretched with orders to hold them there for the 20 minutes. If she spills any water, she has to drink it, and gets another 20 minutes tacked onto her time limit, plus a new glass of water to hold. Now thats some good predicament bondage right there.
I also have a fetish for Shibari. I love japanese rope bondage. I wish I had more partners to practice on.
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Also, I want you to take this flogger and hit me as hard as you can, I can take way more then you could possibly give me.
If it appears with desperation and wetting and not too rough thats ok for me.
BUT without them my answer is a straight no. I never liked it and never will.
BDSM can be quite erotic on its own, just look at that leather clothing...
But paired with desperation or wetting it can be even more arousing than wetting alone
its enjoyable, i just tend to be light on the torture nothing too extreme for me
I look at it like this if she's into it i go for it but
Actual rape nooooooo way
Love bondage and desp together.. (as long as she is consenting of course).. nothing better than a girl tied up busting to pee .. naked watching her pussy squeeze and strain as she tries to hold back her increasingly strong urge to pee .. trying to control her body as it becomes more and more difficult to resist.. mmm
I'm into bdsm. i like to get spanked while diapered and dressed like a girl. i also like to spank. i'm also into bondage!
Just remember the safe word, and ensure it's consensual and they are over 18...
oh yes, BDSM is everything
and desperation to me is just another form of bondage in the end
and they go great together