Coming out of the closet

[captainjack]

I've never had the guts to tell a single person. There were a couple girlfriends i wanted to tell, girls i knew would mostly likely be willing to try some stuff out, but in the end I chickened out and never did. I regret that sometimes heh, one day I will....maybe.

[akemi]

is my private fetish, i'm not interested in someone kwons it, plus a met a nice girl on internet who is into this too, and sometimes we talk about pee

I've had this a number of times, but you need to be careful about how often you talk about it. Sometimes you find that all you know about someone is that they mentioned they may try it, and that seems to be all you can bring up in conversation. You may drive them away talking about it too much, so if you do talk a lot with her take it easy and get to know more about her. If you already do, make conversation - if pee comes into the convo by "accident" (pardon the pun) then go with it.

I was reading the first page and fonf my post XD long time but...
That girl, I met her on peesearch so no problem then, I don't talk about pee to other people. Thanks for caring =D

[Kyrieelleison]

all my friends, or at least my close ones know of my fetish, i ended up telling one (who would eventually become my girlfriend) when she almost wet herself on a train and i explained why i acted oddly throughout the ordeal  then i slowly let everyone else know, no one really cares, although a few harmless jokes are occassionaly made

[warrior21]

I'm quite the blunt person with my true friends so I will eventually admit to a good friend about my fetish. I usually am open about my curiosity in female sexuality and have asked my female friends about their sexual habits and yes, even fetishes. (some can end up quite kinky too...) Eventually, however, this leads to the same questions directed back at me and so I eventually (with some proding) admit to them about my FD fetish. To my surprise everyone seems really quite accept of it. However, so far no girlfriend has ever had my confession on this subject. :P

[Linkx]

Yes, I've told my girlfriend about my fetishes and she's got no problem, even indulges me when I ask every so often. Honesty is the best policy.... well with somebody you're already comfortable with obviously not really first date material but people are more accepting than you would think... well unless you happen to be dating some neo-conservative you'll probably be happily surprised by the results.

[DubiousCharms]

Well, I've just told my new boyfriend about it! I'm so glad about the way it went. We've tried to emphasize honesty and openness so this conversation happened while we were driving to his friend's house.

(After discussing crossdressing, another kink of mine that he's okay with)
Me: And that's not even my worst one!
Him: All right, tell me your worst one!
Me: Uh... Heh. Well...
Him: If you're not comfortable telling me you don't have to say it.
Me: It's better if you know, but it's just something that nearly ruined a past relationship... so...
Him: Right.
Me: Okay, we'll just start with the simplest aspect of it...
(Pregnant pause)
Me: How would you feel if... ah... C-Can I watch you pee? (braces for reaction)
(Another pregnant pause)
Him: Yeah! Okay.
Me: ... Wh-What. Really? REALLY?
Him: Yeah! That's fine, whatever floats your boat. You can even, like, hold it if you want...
Me: That'd be lovely, yes.
Him: I mean, It'd be a little different if you wanted me to... pee ON you...
Me: Oh we don't have to do that then.
Him: Well, okay... that's just something I'd have to think about for a while.
Me: Uhkay.
(pause)
Me: Thanks for not thinking I'm disgusting.
Him: It's no problem at all.
(Several moments pass)
Him: (chuckle)
Me: What?
Him: How could I think you're disgusting? You're so cute...
Me: 

The other aspects will be revealed as they come but so far... I pretty much just told him my deepest, darkest secret and he barely batted an eye. We're both so glad it's out there now. God, I think I'm in love, people! (swoon)

[Iku Nagae]

Wow DC. That really is a keeper!

[tenck5k]

Well, I've just told my new boyfriend about it! I'm so glad about the way it went. We've tried to emphasize honesty and openness so this conversation happened while we were driving to his friend's house.

(After discussing crossdressing, another kink of mine that he's okay with)
Me: And that's not even my worst one!
Him: All right, tell me your worst one!
Me: Uh... Heh. Well...
Him: If you're not comfortable telling me you don't have to say it.
Me: It's better if you know, but it's just something that nearly ruined a past relationship... so...
Him: Right.
Me: Okay, we'll just start with the simplest aspect of it...
(Pregnant pause)
Me: How would you feel if... ah... C-Can I watch you pee? (braces for reaction)
(Another pregnant pause)
Him: Yeah! Okay.
Me: ... Wh-What. Really? REALLY?
Him: Yeah! That's fine, whatever floats your boat. You can even, like, hold it if you want...
Me: That'd be lovely, yes.
Him: I mean, It'd be a little different if you wanted me to... pee ON you...
Me: Oh we don't have to do that then.
Him: Well, okay... that's just something I'd have to think about for a while.
Me: Uhkay.
(pause)
Me: Thanks for not thinking I'm disgusting.
Him: It's no problem at all.
(Several moments pass)
Him: (chuckle)
Me: What?
Him: How could I think you're disgusting? You're so cute...
Me: 

The other aspects will be revealed as they come but so far... I pretty much just told him my deepest, darkest secret and he barely batted an eye. We're both so glad it's out there now. God, I think I'm in love, people! (swoon)

Sounds like a nice guy, a rare thing indeed! Best of luck!

[Quagmire]

Glad things went well for you, D.C.! :)

As for me...I think I'll stay firmly IN the closet, thankyew.  I don't want any family or friends finding out.  If I were ever to pursue a *serious* relationship, then I guess I would need to bring it up.  But otherwise, no way.  Seriously, I hope when the time comes for me to die that I have enough advance warning to wipe my hard drive of any evidence of my fetish...:/

Technically, while I like FD, I guess my greatest fetish is 'girls on the toilet.'  Not hardcore scat, nor watersports, but watching girls relieve themselves. 

[speenza]

I've never told anyone, but my dad found out when I was quite young.  When I was about 10 I had just discovered two things; that my dick was good for more than peeing, and the internet.  It's strange, I never really realized how into female desperation I was, even though I have vivid memories from when I was about 5 fantasizing about girls wetting themselves (in the McDonalds ballpen/giant slide things no less), until I looked into it online.  Anyway, that was before I knew how to wipe search engine histories, and the only way I could figure out how to keep it from coming up when someone used Google was to search stuff that was alphabetically before it.  One day I got careless, and my dad saw it (I still have no idea what he was doing on my computer, as it was mine and he had his own).  What followed was the most awkward conversation of my life.  We never mentioned it again, and I sometimes wonder whether he even remembers it.  He thinks it was just a fad, but boy was he wrong. 

That kind of scarred me about telling people.  I almost told a pair of my friends when I was talking to them online.  They were talking about their fetishes, as theya re quite open about sexual stuff and I almost said something, but I decided not to at the last second.  I've always been quite closed about sexual stuff, and while I'm very, very sure they would have been ok with it, I was just afraid that they would let it slip and tell my girlfriend or something, as I'm sure she would not be ok with it, or that they would think of me differently in some way. 

One day I might tell people about it, but that is not this day.

[Magic Kitty]

This is private for me, but I'm sure if I had a boyfriend that I was serious about, I would definitely tell him.
I might even tell my close girl friends but only if the question of fetishes came up, but they would have to tell me their dirt too!
It hasn't come up so I see no need to talk about it.

[Ameboes]

@speenza

Hmm. I remember when I was like 13, I was fantasizing about my crush completely losing control, wetting and soiling herself in the middle of the school's hallway.

I barely knew what sex, fetishes, masturbation, porn, etc. were back then.

[Magic Kitty]

@speenza

Hmm. I remember when I was like 13, I was fantasizing about my crush completely losing control, wetting and soiling herself in the middle of the school's hallway.

I barely knew what sex, fetishes, masturbation, porn, etc. were back then.

Haha that's how it starts, right? Even before you hit puberty, you already have an interest in it xD

[lie2hacker2]

The only person I have ever told was my Ex-Girlfriend. This was a little over a year ago, sometime in April. She said there should be no secrets between us, but it took so much courage to tell her.
We had been boyfriend girlfriend for two-and-a-half years. I said that I had an odd fetish and it wasn't until 25 minutes after I said that when I actually had the courage to tell her.
Once I told her, her immediate response was that she laughed at me. Whenever the subject came up the following couple of days, the response always was that she laughed at me.
After that, the most she ever did for me and my fetish was she let me watch her use the toilet a few times. Thats it.
And last October she dumped me for another guy. She also thinks I have some mental disease or something.
Besides her, I've told no one.

And yes... I am a new user here. It actually took a bit of courage to even post this.

[jlg77]

I told a long-distance male friend in South Korea about it, but he didn't seem to mind (not to mention his main fetish is bondage).

I have also have a female friend who I suspect knows I'm into it, but she's never said anything.