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Title: What's sexier?
Post by: JackO on October 23, 2009, 02:45:01 PM
Do you find it sexier for a girl to completely lose control of her bladder very suddenly, causing an intense wetting, with a large puddle

OR

for a girl to be slowly wetting, in little spurts, trying despite its futility to hold on, slowly soaking her panties until she gives up and pees the last bit into her soaked panties?

For me it'd be the second, but I'd like to see what appeals to everyone else.
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: FallenStar on October 23, 2009, 07:45:57 PM
For me, definitely the second option;  I've been into RPing for about 5 years and every time a full loss is incurred too quickly, I feel... disappointed.  (gee, I kinda feel like a woman whose lover came too fast and fell asleep before she got her orgasm   :lol:  )


I also deal in a little mind control and corruption, so those girls that spurt little streams at first is also a plus because it keeps the strain up and eventually breaks down her will, making her far easier to control and whatnot.

Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: Iku Nagae on October 23, 2009, 11:13:25 PM
I also say the second option. The reason is the same as Star's. A fast release is over too quickly.
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: JackO on October 24, 2009, 01:29:31 AM
I definately thought there'd be some people answering with option 1, because you see some of the pics on this site etc showing girls with huge streams or huge puddles,

but even more so if you watch videos from some of the paysites around, they all seem to show women totally losing contol, rather than little by little.
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: hashish on October 24, 2009, 04:04:25 AM
My vote is for option 1, although they're both pretty good!
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: JackO on October 24, 2009, 05:48:25 AM
Quote from: hashish on October 24, 2009, 04:04:25 AM
My vote is for option 1, although they're both pretty good!

What is it that you particularly like about option 1?

Because option 2 has the obvious humiliation element to it, but I guess option 1 could be just as embarrasing.
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: akemi on October 24, 2009, 06:31:01 AM
My vote is for the second option def. more enjoyable to see, also that would look more desperation to the scene
first option would be too fast but great to see too
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: anime lover on October 24, 2009, 06:57:44 AM
While both are appealing, If I have to only choose one, it would be number 1, mainly for the visual intensity of it, or even sound if the girl's bladder was under enough pressure to make her pee so hard you hear a hissing of the pee leaving her, the second option doesn't have the plus of audible enjoyment ^_^
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: Serika on October 24, 2009, 11:14:49 AM
Right now i would go with #1. It looks more impressive when a girl's pants are soaked from zipper to ankles and there's a huge puddle underneath her. It also allows for the shock and embarrassment to hit all at once because it's harder to hide than a wet patch.
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: packrat on October 24, 2009, 07:02:47 PM
I prefer the second option.  It gives a bit more hope that the girl wil be able to make if she tries hard enough.  It also makes yoyu feel kinda sorry for her because you know that even though she's giving it her all to hold on, her body has just reached it's limit and can't continue the fight.
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: ETNsilverstar on October 24, 2009, 07:44:42 PM
I like a mix of the two...a lot of little spurts that fight their way out until eventually she can't stop it all from flooding out and there's a huge puddle and completely soaked jeans. THe fighting is great because it means she's desperate for longer instead of just giving up.
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: Is that Carmine on October 25, 2009, 12:51:09 AM
You can enjoy option 2 longer so I'll have to go with that.
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: Neil on October 25, 2009, 12:06:45 PM
I prefer the first option. Losing control right there and forming a big puddle are more embarrassing and humiliating, plus it's obvious that she had an accident. I always enjoy seeing a girl wet herself thoroughly rather than by spurts.
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: blahblahblargz on October 25, 2009, 03:42:37 PM
I prefer the complete lose of control. When a girl slowly wets her pants... it just feels like half her bladder has been emptied in her pants already, why bother holding the rest, if she's already wet herself enough that everyone notices?

Also, like Neil said, a big puddle all of a sudden is more embarrassing and obvious! It also feels like more of a climax to the story, you know? I just like that she keeps holding it, then the dam breaks and it all comes out. A little spurt that only she notices in her panties that tells her she doesn't have much time left is okay, though!
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: JackO on October 25, 2009, 03:53:09 PM
I can see quite a divide here, between people who like the very sudden release, and the slow, slow wetting. From What I can see there are pros and cons to both types.

Fast Release: Draws attention to girl, humiliation, audible noise, stream, puddle etc.

Slow Release: Girl experiences more psychological embarrasment, lasts longer, embarrasment of wet clothes, can lead to the last bit being a fast release.

Anyway, I'm going to use this information in my next fanfic, so thanks guys, any more opinions are welcome.
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: D_guy10 on November 01, 2009, 06:14:45 PM
After careful consideration, I say option 2 in fafics or manga, and option 1 in clips or film, of course there better be some lengthy desperation prior to the "bursting of the dam."

Happy (delayed) Halloween by the way.  :death:
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: crucialx12 on November 06, 2009, 08:30:38 PM
Although I like option 1, the second option is my favorite. Awhile ago I seen a Wetting Her Panties movie where a girl (can't remember the model) was locked out of the bathroom and trying to get in. They usually end in a complete loss of control, but this one had the girl dribbling little by little until the damn finally burst and her bladder gave way. That one was one of the best movies I've seen and they never seem to have more of those.

Also, it's one of my fantasies seeing a girl holding even after she's lost control.
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: Stripe on November 06, 2009, 09:23:16 PM
I prefer slower release; I think a lot of what turns me on is the psychological side of things, so I like for the desperation and embarassment to be prolonged for as long as possible~
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: Ranpalan on November 15, 2009, 02:35:00 PM
I'd say that I'm somewhere in the middle - I'd like the girl to leak a bit before she soaks herself, but I want it to end in a soaking. It does depend from girl to girl, though. The more open she is, the more sudden the wetting should be - probably to end up with some constant embarrassment factor (shy girl being easier to embarrass, that is). Either way, though, I'd like the girl to realize a minute or two early that she is at her limit, and will soak herself very much soon now - no matter what.
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: mrk_cuban on November 21, 2009, 11:40:57 PM
I like a little bit of both. I dont want it to end too quickly, but its great fun to watch a girl struggle to hold on.
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: dude181 on November 22, 2009, 03:15:47 AM
What would be the perfect fantasy...

Seeing a girl hold on for as long as she can, the the dam breaks and the full force flood starts... BUT she has a huge bladder so it isn't over so quickly. It should be made some RP character should be made to have the biggest bladder in the universe.
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: desperado9 on November 23, 2009, 07:00:38 AM
I wish I could relate either one to real life, but, even if i am watching a video, it feels to me that #2, the slow wetting, is more realistic. I mean, I expect that is what would actually happen, as she tries to hold on and keeps losing spurts, until finally she cannot hold any more. I wish more of the videos that are produced used scenario #2 - please note, it seems from this thread that it would be very popular - but #1 appears to be preferred by filmmakers.
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: aces on December 30, 2009, 09:59:57 PM
i'd have to go with the second one.
while the former does turn me on, the second one turns me on for longer and more. which in my books is a no brainer.

though either is nice.
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: Basil1 on December 31, 2009, 04:32:38 AM
I likes number two best.
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: raar on January 04, 2010, 09:39:00 AM
I personally enjoy the more intense giant puddle type myself, but i do see the appeal of the slower longer release, and honestly, i usually do prefer things that are more bursty (teehee) when coming to other things like a short difficult exam as opposed to some long dragged out one.
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: MisterPapaya on January 06, 2010, 08:18:26 PM
I think the gradual leaking to totally wet is better, since that was how my first experience with a significant other wetting herself happened.

The first girlfriend I told I was into wetting responded pretty well, in that after we discussed it, she lifted the front of her nightgown and showed me that she'd peed herself slightly, saying that it felt kinda nice, the problem being that afterward she leaked a little more inadvertently onto her comforter, then ran off, hand to crotch to the bathroom.

I followed of course, after she got in, she parked in the toilet without pausing to take off her panties, partially for my enjoyment, but more because they were wet anyway, and finished. She was a little annoyed at the fact that she got more than she had bargained for, but let's say I made it up to her.
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: Ameboes on January 13, 2010, 09:43:57 PM
Although wetting isn't the same without desperation, for me it's more the pee than the psychology. I like seeing a major stream through her clothing/down her legs, a big puddle, and hearing the hissint.

On the other hand, visible spurting can be nice too. What's disappointing is those videos that are obviously staged, where the girl hardly has any pee in her bladder at all. A quick release of maybe five seconds... you want me to believe she was desperate?
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: anastyanax on January 14, 2010, 12:19:50 AM
I really like #1 IF there's good buildup to it. If she's really desperate (moaning, etc), then just lets it all go. the buildup can be just as exciting as the show, whether there are spurts or not.
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: Kosetsu on January 18, 2010, 12:04:48 AM
I very much prefer the second one, to see the girl squirm trying to hold it in while she tries to reach the bathroom then see her fail as she soaks herself is pretty damn hot in my eyes.
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: redeker on January 20, 2010, 07:38:55 PM
#2. I like to soak in the details. (Pun intended, though I don't do GS)
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: thunder7102 on February 05, 2010, 08:23:11 PM
I would have to go with option 2. Why? Because watching them squirm in desperation and try to hide it as I watch them slowly lose control is part of the entire package. I like it all even down to when her pants are completely soaked. That is my personal opinion. For me, it is like eating PB&J without the bread. It still tastes good, but could have been better.
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: theerut on February 05, 2010, 11:06:49 PM
i like the second. because it has long desperation than the other.
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: Omorashi-lover on February 17, 2010, 07:33:46 AM
Is this considered as a dead topic? The question is really interesting. I can't tell wether I'm into the 1st of the 2nd. What I like about the 1st one is how powerful the squirts are and how drenched will the girl gets. And what I like the 2nd is how I get to see MORE desperation! It'd be the best if both are combined > The girl's losing control in large spurts, crying embarrassingly, but still struggling and trying her best to stop every single drip as possible, YUMMY~ :clap:
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: weird-h on February 28, 2010, 10:26:55 PM
Well....

Can I make new option?
I think deliberate wetting is more sexier than accident ones....  :lol:
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: Omorashi-lover on February 28, 2010, 10:54:48 PM
Quote from: weird-h on February 28, 2010, 10:26:55 PM
Well....

Can I make new option?
I think deliberate wetting is more sexier than accident ones....  :lol:

Accidental wetting is a lot sexier than deliberate wetting!  :drool: Deliberate seems slutty and the element of humiliation is absent.
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: JackO on March 01, 2010, 07:51:17 AM
Quote from: weird-h on February 28, 2010, 10:26:55 PM
Well....

Can I make new option?
I think deliberate wetting is more sexier than accident ones....  :lol:

See: http://www.animegirldesp.org/forum/index.php?topic=3258.0

But I'd suggest that you read, and not post as its pretty much a dead thread.
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: 3digimon on March 01, 2010, 03:00:46 PM
I choose the 2nd option. I like the desperation before the wetting. I like the first one too, just the 2nd one better
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: Omorashi-lover on March 02, 2010, 12:09:49 AM
Quote from: 3digimon on March 01, 2010, 03:00:46 PM
I choose the 2nd option. I like the desperation before the wetting. I like the first one too, just the 2nd one better

I like desperation more than wetting too ^.^ However, an intense desperation without wetting is like a highly enjoyable film without a great ending, and wetting without desperation isn't that hot (especially slutty wettings, where the girls laugh when they wet their jeans on purpose) Still panties wettings (especially white and pink panties) are really hot =D
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: weird-h on March 02, 2010, 10:59:08 PM
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Quote from: Omorashi-lover on February 28, 2010, 10:54:48 PM


Accidental wetting is a lot sexier than deliberate wetting!  :drool: Deliberate seems slutty and the element of humiliation is absent.

Well...

That's why it can be use for teasing doesn't it?  :lol:
As well as the girl who desperate and then giving up alltogether

Then again, the accidental that caused by outside forces can be nice also..  :drool:
And for the available options, no holding back once it started goes to my choice.. ^ ^
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: Omorashi-lover on March 02, 2010, 11:08:44 PM
Quote from: weird-h on March 02, 2010, 10:59:08 PM
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Quote from: Omorashi-lover on February 28, 2010, 10:54:48 PM


Accidental wetting is a lot sexier than deliberate wetting!  :drool: Deliberate seems slutty and the element of humiliation is absent.

Well...

That's why it can be use for teasing doesn't it?  :lol:
As well as the girl who desperate and then giving up alltogether

Then again, the accidental that caused by outside forces can be nice also..  :drool:
And for the available options, no holding back once it started goes to my choice.. ^ ^

Do you mean like something banging on the full bladder girl and she wets herself uncontrollably? That's really hot too XD
No holding back once started is hot cause we love the massive cascades but at the same time I love to see her struggling her best not to pee herself. Anyway if I ever see a girl having an accident I won't tease =X
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: animepee on March 04, 2010, 05:17:37 PM
For videos and pictures, I would say option 1.. because I love it when they make a large puddle and such

But for RPing, I could see liking option 2 more :p
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: Krumm1214 on March 09, 2010, 04:53:08 PM
Oohhh... This is a tough choice, as they are both rather sexy. But if I have to choose, I would say option two. To quote the Borgs from Star Trek "Resistance is futile", and the more they try to resist the urge, the sexier it becomes.
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: Omorashi-lover on March 10, 2010, 02:24:10 AM
Quote from: zeroin001 on March 10, 2010, 12:40:37 AM
Quote from: Omorashi-lover on February 28, 2010, 10:54:48 PM
Quote from: weird-h on February 28, 2010, 10:26:55 PM
Well....

Can I make new option?
I think deliberate wetting is more sexier than accident ones....  :lol:

Accidental wetting is a lot sexier than deliberate wetting!  :drool: Deliberate seems slutty and the element of humiliation is absent.

You are speaking my language, my friend. I couldn't agree any more. Deliberate wetting omits one crucial element to female desperation, and that is 'desperation'.

With regards to the options, I would like to see a bit of a middle ground. If you look at my fan fics I always portray the characters to first slowly loose control, and regaining it, just before completely losing it. The sudden release is an overwhelming element, that enforces the embarrasment and helplessness of the situation.
So on that front, particularly considering pics and movies, I would go with option 1.

It's hard for me to choose these 2 options... no.1 has powerful cascades, wonderful puddle and massive urine flow along her legs madly like a waterfall. Though 2 she tries to stop it, that means she's really dignified and would never give up, the element of desperation and humiliation are therefore stronger. It'd be perfect to combine 1 with 2, where the girl attempts to stop the powerful urine spurting out from her vagina, we can see her still struggling by pressing her crotch but at the same time the massive fresh urine is seen rushing down XD
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: Adam on March 20, 2010, 04:52:58 PM
Spurting is the sexiest so I'll go with #2. I mean... come on, watching that damsel in distress try to look dignified and adult while totally failing at it is a turn on. I'd rather watch failure by the second than one major failure. A bunch of little spurts are greater than one big spurt... but the best would be... a bunch of little spurts and then one final failure, leaving the girl absolutely drenched in pee and tears. :3
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: Omorashi-lover on March 20, 2010, 11:20:43 PM
Quote from: Adam on March 20, 2010, 04:52:58 PM
Spurting is the sexiest so I'll go with #2. I mean... come on, watching that damsel in distress try to look dignified and adult while totally failing at it is a turn on. I'd rather watch failure by the second than one major failure. A bunch of little spurts are greater than one big spurt... but the best would be... a bunch of little spurts and then one final failure, leaving the girl absolutely drenched in pee and tears. :3

Brilliant! That's absolutely what I was babbling about and what I like. So what we like is probably 1+2 (which is the 3rd section XD) Dignified girls peeing themselves shamefully, can you imagine anything sexier =3?
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: weird-h on March 20, 2010, 11:35:06 PM
^

Dunno....

I thought it will be sexier when the accident is caused by 'real accident' like tripped over, or other distraction rather than beeing an 'accident' of cannot hold any longer-one....

and it will be much sexier (for me) if the girl are completely loosing control after the 'accident'
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: Omorashi-lover on March 22, 2010, 09:56:46 AM
Quote from: weird-h on March 20, 2010, 11:35:06 PM
^

Dunno....

I thought it will be sexier when the accident is caused by 'real accident' like tripped over, or other distraction rather than beeing an 'accident' of cannot hold any longer-one....

and it will be much sexier (for me) if the girl are completely loosing control after the 'accident'

I know that distraction! I'm so horny when I see a girl is forced to focus on doing a certain thing while she really really has to go to the bathroom. But still I love to see her peeing herself because her bladder has given up involuntarily... =) :blushing:
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: Adam on March 22, 2010, 05:31:58 PM
Either is limitlessly sexy to me. The Reader's Digest version of this forum is:
Cute girls+urine=:D

I just want it to happen in real life, at least once! I'm getting sick of all the fantasy... the fantasy is effing sexy but I urge for it to happen in real life... I know I'm a freak in some ways... but I just want it to happen! Well... for every will there's a way...
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: Kenichi123 on March 22, 2010, 06:08:50 PM
I say it depends what kind of girl it is,

Like if she's shy, slow would be the best,

If she's outgoing but embarassed, then fast and over with would be the best.

Well, thats what i think anyways.
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: Omorashi-lover on March 23, 2010, 02:37:00 AM
Quote from: Adam on March 22, 2010, 05:31:58 PM
Either is limitlessly sexy to me. The Reader's Digest version of this forum is:
Cute girls+urine=:D

I just want it to happen in real life, at least once! I'm getting sick of all the fantasy... the fantasy is effing sexy but I urge for it to happen in real life... I know I'm a freak in some ways... but I just want it to happen! Well... for every will there's a way...

I really want it to happen to but I think I'm not likely to see any real life omorashi easily. Pretty Girls + Urine = Perfection, can't imagine anything sexier. Though I still love my crazy fantasies of omorashi XD

You're saying like you're gonna make a girl wet herself? That's a little too evil~ I think I'll never do such thing, despite how sexy and irresistable female desperation is...
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: Adam on March 23, 2010, 05:52:13 PM
Yeah, even though it'd be downright irresistible, my morals wouldn't allow me... I'd be lying if I said I wasn't getting a stiffy right now just thinking about it though! Humans and how desperate they are to have their fantasies fulfilled! And it's not always sexual stuff either.

For example, if a girl said she had to pee and I liked her and she liked me, I'd probably tickle her until she wets, then I'd probably just go nuts. She probably wouldn't see it as anything to turn me on haha.
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: Omorashi-lover on March 24, 2010, 12:53:08 AM
Quote from: Adam on March 23, 2010, 05:52:13 PM
Yeah, even though it'd be downright irresistible, my morals wouldn't allow me... I'd be lying if I said I wasn't getting a stiffy right now just thinking about it though! Humans and how desperate they are to have their fantasies fulfilled! And it's not always sexual stuff either.

For example, if a girl said she had to pee and I liked her and she liked me, I'd probably tickle her until she wets, then I'd probably just go nuts. She probably wouldn't see it as anything to turn me on haha.

Hmm that's so true, I wouldn't allow myself to do immoral things like making a girl wetting herself. I'll get stiffen just by typing or thinking about omorashi, that's really sensitive! I don't know why, generally people think pee is gross, but I just love female's pee so much. Desperation is so arousing and addictive. And right we're all human beings so it's right to have fantasies. Sometimes we think of wealth, power and credit as well. But I find it a lot plesurable imagining omorashi girls XD

If it's in the same case I wouldn't do the same thing (most importantly I don't really like tickle wetting, it's wetting so it's still hot but not my favorite). I'll try my best to help her on finding the toilet in time (maybe I'll hold back a little =X) and if she wets herself I'll comfort her. If I think she'll accept me and my fetish I'll probably tell her. It's so sweet to console an embarrassed girl who has just wet herself! =D
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: Adam on March 24, 2010, 05:13:32 PM
The problem is, this fetish has the potential (but isn't always) to be a hardcore one. And I'm a softie. I love comforting and cuddling with girls. If a girl wet herself, my body might turn off sexuality outright and instead I'd just want to comfort her, clean her up, and move on. This is the roadblock. Maybe I could comfort her and then tell her... I like it when she does that, and that it's not all bad because of that.
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: Omorashi-lover on March 25, 2010, 05:57:15 AM
Quote from: Adam on March 24, 2010, 05:13:32 PM
The problem is, this fetish has the potential (but isn't always) to be a hardcore one. And I'm a softie. I love comforting and cuddling with girls. If a girl wet herself, my body might turn off sexuality outright and instead I'd just want to comfort her, clean her up, and move on. This is the roadblock. Maybe I could comfort her and then tell her... I like it when she does that, and that it's not all bad because of that.

Exactly! That's what I always wanted to do =) Witnessing a bashful girl having an embarrassing pee accident. I'll comfort her and tell her something like "it's so cute when you pee yourself" or "I like it when you wet yourself" Still, it depends if I think she'd be able to accept what I say.
Title: Re: What's sexier?
Post by: mooseman on April 22, 2010, 09:03:14 PM
i like it fast and big.there can be a little spirt but not one that guves it away to everybody else. i think that its more exciting when all her holding leads up to the final moment where she can't take it anymore and loses all control